Diving into the World of Married Dating: How to Do Things Right

Stuck In a Rut: Restless and Frustrated

I’m no mind reader, but if you’ve stumbled across this blog, I can almost guarantee that you’re feeling the exact same way I did just a few months ago. Like you, I found myself less engaged in my marriage, and I began to entertain the idea of married dating. I was growing increasingly distracted and bored in my relationship and was constantly restless, as if something were missing from my life. I realized that this was what some might call a “mid-life crisis.” I didn’t want to throw my old life away, but one thing was becoming clear: I needed to make some changes in my life.

The relationship between my wife and I had cooled down over the years, mostly due to my long hours at work and her busyness with the kids’ schedules. Even so, I didn’t want to do anything to hurt her or our sons. I was constantly frustrated, wanting to change things but feeling as though I was stuck at a stand-still.

Married but Dating: The Solution to My Problems

It was at that point in time that I found myself sitting in front of my computer late one night, searching for answers. I knew that I needed to experience something new and different. To be frank, I longed for a kind of intimacy that was no longer present in my marriage. It’d been years since I’d felt my heart racing in anticipation of a date, and I could barely even remember the last time I had felt the exhilaration of experiencing sex with a new partner.

I soon realized that I needed to find a discreet, professional way to begin dating others while married. I knew that my best bet for finding compatible married women interested in dating me would be by finding a dating service catering mostly to married men and women. I figured this would be simple. You can find anything on the internet, right? Well, it wasn’t long before I found out that not all online dating services are created equal. Nobody ever said that being married and dating was easy, but damn, I had no idea how hard it would actually be!

Married Online Dating: Not as Easy as it Sounds!

Some might call me foolish, but when I get excited about a project, I dive into it no-holds-barred. I signed up for four or five different married online dating sites right away, handing over my money without a second thought. I knew that if I tried to date married women that I already knew in-person, I’d be far more likely to get caught, so naturally, these sites seemed like my best bet. I knew that the old phrase, “you get what you pay for,” is generally right, so I didn’t hesitate to sign up for a few of the better-known subscription sites out there.

Unfortunately, I found that while most of these sites looked good from the homepage, their content was definitely lacking. I found myself reaching out to a number of married women, but I rarely heard back from them. Though many women enjoyed chatting, they often got cold feet, and seemed too casual about dating while married. One or two of the sites seemed to have mostly outdated profiles, and I grew frustrated when I’d see that a potential match hadn’t logged in since 2012. A lot of women were simply looking for the occasional sexual encounter. Of course there’s nothing wrong with that, but I was looking for the full experience of dating while married — romance, sex, friendship — the whole package. Sure, I went on a date or two, but ultimately, after many hours (and dollars) invested in these sites, I was left feeling as though I had wasted my time. I had almost lost hope in finding a dating service catering for married people that actually worked, until I came across this site.

A Married Dating Site that Actually Works

A few months after my unsuccessful foray into the world of married online dating, a friend of mine mentioned to me that he’d recently tried out a site that had worked for him. I was skeptical, and laughed him off at first. After having invested so much in similar sites in the past I found myself doubting that anything would actually work for me. He told me that this site was different, though. The set-up was far more secure and discreet, and the women he had met were smart, sensual, sincere, and, most importantly, serious about having affairs.

After he encouraged me to give it a go, I decided to give married online dating one last shot. I vowed that I wouldn’t spend more than a month’s worth of time and money on this escapade unless it really impressed me. Surprisingly, this site changed my mind about the world of married personal services.

As soon as I signed up, I could feel that this site was different from the rest. Not only did I get responses back from interested women in my city, I even found some married women actively pursuing me. The site design was not only discreet, but also far easier to navigate than many of the other sites I had encountered. Though I still came across women who were more interested in one-night stands than dating, I discovered that there really are women out there that are interested in staying married but dating others on a regular basis. It was on this site that I met Dana, the woman I have now been seeing for a number of months. Unlike many of the women I’d met from other sites, Dana was a married woman who had a serious interest in all aspects of dating outside of her marriage. We’ve gone out to dinner together, had fun around town, and yes, the sex is fantastic too. Finally I’ve been able to enjoy the full package of an exciting relationship while maintaining my home life with my wife and kids.

Though no affair dating site is perfect, I’ve found that this site satisfies my needs better than any of the others that I’ve tried — and believe me, I’ve tried a lot! Maybe I could have found a match through another service, but I know that this site helped me find fulfillment faster and more effectively than the rest. I can safely credit this site to helping me find myself again, while providing me with the privacy and security that keeps my marriage intact. All in all, this site has been the answer to my problems, and I’d recommend it to any man or woman looking into dating while married. All I can ask is that you give it a shot. The right person is out there waiting for you — you just have to go and find her.